HOW TO CREATE UNSTOPPABLE SELF-CONFIDENCE
TO LEAD YOU TO FINANCIAL SUCCESS AND YOUR DREAMLIFE.
Authored by Gary A. Ferraro
How do you get to that incredible place called – UNSTOPPABLE and INFECTIOUS Self Confidence – High Self Esteem – Certainty – Belief?
First off – STOP:
• Thinking about what other people think about you and say about you.
• Worrying about what other people think of you and say about you.
• Letting people kick and beat you around.
If you don’t do the above you will constantly have unconscious “self chatter” going on in your brain firing off those neurons and leading you to “question” YOU.
You can’t let that happen!
Next you must do a:
• Self-assessment of your true Internal Certainty, Belief and Self-Confidence level.
Most people have never done this – don’t really know HOW to do it – and many are just too damn scared to really do it.
But here’s what I can tell you with absolute – absolute certainty.
If you don’t do that self assessment then external things, people and forces will constantly control, manipulate and take advantage of you.
You either control it or it controls you.
Controlling and Optimizing your Inner Self – your Self-Confidence – your Self Certainty – your Belief in Yourself comes from your:
• behavioral patterns
• interpretations of your past including events, memories, traumas, successes, failures
• actions you engage in consistently
Next honestly answer this question for yourself:
• Do you Live Your Life Predominantly at the CAUSE – or at the EFFECT.
If you are living it at the cause – and you are not lying about this then GREAT!
If you are living at the effect – then NOT great. You’ve got work to do – that is unless you want to continue to NOT live the great life you and your family deserve and desire and be constantly manipulated by and used by other people or outside events and circumstances.
Next honestly answer this question for yourself:
• Do you consistently live your life with a “Victim” mentality?
If you aren’t – and you are not lying about this then GREAT!
If you are – then – again – NOT great. If you really think and believe that living in such a way with a victim – whoa is me mentality – will really benefit you in the long run – then may I sell you some of my ocean front land on Mt. Everest? There’s No ocean front – at least not yet – on Mt. Everest – and I can absolutely assure you that your victim mentality ways will ultimately FAIL you – and fail your family.
Measure your real self-confidence, certainty and self-esteem by taking this simple test and answering the questions below:
1) Do you deliberately design and create your life on a daily basis?
2) Do you then take action and follow through on the things you did to design and create your life?
3) Do you take FULL OWNERSHIP of and RESPONSIBILITY FOR your life, actions and outcomes?
4) Do you feel PROUD of or GUILTY of your successes and accomplishments?
5) Do you feel EMBARRASED ABOUT and AFRAID of your failures?
6) Do you feel COMFORTABLE WITH and OPEN to change?
7) If you were on a deserted island – ship wrecked – would you SURVIVE or would you DIE?
8) Are you quick to say THANK YOU when someone helps you or gives you a gift or services?
9) Are you slow to LIKE people and gatherings and social events?
10) Do you complain, blame, brood and whine a lot?
11) Do you like it and feel good when people say “I Love You” to you?
12) Do you like to and do you often tell other people “I Love You” to them?
13) Do you like to GIVE hugs and handshakes?
14) Do you like to GET hugs and handshakes?
15) When there is a task or something you need to do or say – do you forge ahead with it – or procrastinate about it?
HOW do you INSTALL and BOOST Self-Confidence, Belief and Certainty.
There are several steps to this process:
1) IDENTIFY exactly what your sources of low self-confidence, lack of belief and lack of certainty are.
• What are they?
• Where do they come from?
• How did they get there?
• What happened to you – or didn’t happen to you – that lead you to this point?
• Why do you feel this way?
You MUST do this exercise or you will never get to the bottom of WHAT is the root cause of all this – or what to do about it.
2) DECIDE that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
After you get to the root causes of what is keeping you from unstoppable Self-confidence, Belief and Certainty then you MUST decide that you will:
• change it.
• not let your life be stolen from you by this anymore.
• be ready to face the music and take action to wire in and install that great, unstoppable self confidence, belief and certainty.
3) TAKE ACTION to WIRE IN and REPROGRAM.
Most humans still think and are indeed taught by their families at young ages that they are who they are and that change is not really possible to your brain and what goes on inside it.
Well that is an innocent but dangerous lie – kind of like the lie that made you believe there was a “boogey man”.
This “wiring in” and “reprogramming” can be accomplished via a number of methods which we teach in the Wired for Wealth training and should include:
• Consistent, daily affirmations of positive self.
• Stating those affirmations repeatedly.
• Visualizing your new, strong “Self”
• Feeling it emotionally and deeply.
• Acting on those new “Self” beliefs daily.
• Rewarding yourself for those new “self” beliefs.
• Filling yourself up daily.
• Showing and giving love, hugs, good deeds and kind words to others daily.
• Showing and giving love, hugs, good deeds and kind words to yourself dally.
Make no mistake about it. This is WORK – that four letter word.
To wire it in and let it take hold as your NEW “SELF” you will need to first do it consciously and deliberately and then after you do it you will begin to assimilate it unconsciously.
4) REINFORCE WITH REPITION.
You must use repetition and reinforcement to make sure it stays installed and “firing” those neurons that get programmed with the new “Self” definitions.
Suffice it to say that when you achieve mastery over your “SELF” and get yourself to Unstoppable Self-Confidence, Belief and Certainty levels – then you will achieve financial freedom and be truly living your dreamlife.
Transform and Master Your Mind
and you will
Transform and Master Your Finances
and this will
Transform and Master Your Life.
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